And I wonder today if this is how some people really feel inside. Like they've given up everything that they've ever held dear to them just because they felt that love took control. And then it seems like a time comes when the shine wears away and they end up feeling like that guy. Alone with no where or no one to go to.
Can love really do that?
I would have never believed before until now. The crazy things people do for love and I believe most do regret what they gave up. Despite all the memories and hearty plans. Life before the love would have probably been better than the present circumstance if you look like that guy. Love's ride usually holds much happiness along with the hardships. However, most people don't look like that guy from their outward appearances. You'd think people are happy with their present circumstances. Some of the most successful looking relationships are filled with misery and pain of people with pretend smiles. When on the inside they feel like that guy and too are wondering how's it that they ended up here or knowingly beat themselves up about the 'whys' and 'what-ifs' of it all. People will always fail you in some way or another because the human heart is that of expectancy. We expect people to give us exactly what we need or sometimes even more. And real love is not that of expectancy. It's not expecting any and giving much. You only can get to this point when individuals understand the nature of love and its creator.
"And in the end we always remember our beginning"
God is love. Love in its purest form is the love of God. Agape. This is when we can love ourselves and others as Christ loves us. The best example I can give of that love is Christ sending his son for the love he had for humanity not to see us perish in our own sinful nature.So he gave his son up all in total sacrifice for humanity many of which who still didn't believe then and still now. Nonetheless when you're going through the hardship of giving it all for love don't feel wary because even Jesus cried out "Lord why have you forsaken me?!" on the cross. An irrefutable human emotion that he was not wrong to feel though he knew in his heart the purpose and the outcome of it all. In spite of, just as Christ you may feel abandoned and hurt because of it all, continue to be faithful and believe if it's Gods' will he'll put you through it to see you through it and if not his will he delivers those that want to be set free. Yet as individuals we are all afforded free-will to chose our own paths and to thread wherever they may lead us. Live.Love.Laugh.
2 comments:
sadly love can do that. my situation isn't extreme but with past boyfriends i put up with a lot of family lectures to the point they look at me differently, let my grades slip to the point im back in my mother's house waitin to finish school, and damaged a little bit to the point i feel if i lose love again i fall into deep depression.
BUT it all depends on how much or less naive we are. I've lived and grown from it and now i see the beauty of love.
that is one powerful mutha-effa.
..I understand where you're coming from too. Love can make you really crazy and then you look back like dang!!! did I do that ish..lol. But you said it you live and learn that's what it's all about...when you loving right it is beautiful.Thanx for showin' love.
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